Are you married?

Or are you getting married soon?

This 2 question had been asked by my frens (and I mean not only one) around me whenever we meet. This includes frens who hadn't been keeping in touch and the first question that is asked when we meet. Why? I had been wondering why am I been throw on this question so often? Do I look like someone who will get married so fast? or I behave like marriage is everything to me? Well. to all of u out there, I am not like what you thought. I am a very career minded girl. To me, career rank the first, especially for a woman. That is the most important 'insurance' for a woman's life. And I'm not that kind of person to be happy with a wonderful marriage life. I'm not saying that marriage is not good. It's just that to me, even after marriage, I also need to have my own career life rather than putting all the hope of my life on my future husband. Every one have to be responsible for their own life and not depending on others to decide your life right? I am starting to feel more and more like a female chauvinist...=)